LLI 50 Lighthouse Leadership & Letting Go: Creating Without Force

00:00:00: Drumroll, it's iteration number 50, 50 of the Love Louder podcast, iterations on becoming

00:00:08: human.

00:00:09: Let's take this iteration and episode to have a little behind the scenes what's actually

00:00:15: happening right now with the podcast, with this venture and in this universe of Love

00:00:22: Louder.

00:00:23: So, we touched on marketing.

00:00:26: The last episode in iteration, if you have not listened to it, here's a quick and short

00:00:32: recap.

00:00:34: It's marketing for me how I want to define it when I am exploring right now with this

00:00:40: podcast and with you together is a lighthouse marketing.

00:00:47: It's shining our light at stepping up as the leader that we are grounded in love, grounded

00:00:57: in intimacy, grounded in who we are as being, not because of doing more.

00:01:05: And this is our marketing, like a lighthouse that shines a light and that can be seen from

00:01:14: afar.

00:01:15: Now, let's have a look at something tangible which is very often numbers in this world,

00:01:25: in this reality.

00:01:27: So this podcast I launched very spontaneously.

00:01:30: It was like really quick action and I have not done any marketing.

00:01:37: So I have not published it on social media.

00:01:42: I have just focused myself on getting into the habit of recording the episodes, on getting

00:01:51: the momentum going and just as a part of learning from myself what brings joy.

00:02:02: While of course overcoming some patterns of the mind that were not very useful.

00:02:10: So we've talked about that.

00:02:12: We don't want to dive in here right now.

00:02:14: It's all recorded if you want to go back and listen to the first episodes especially.

00:02:20: And then we're here right now without marketing, without promoting, without advertising actually

00:02:28: that there is this podcast and I get regularly updates from my profiles on the internet.

00:02:39: Like when you have a business profile from Google Business, I have one which is old.

00:02:45: I have closed it actually.

00:02:47: It was inactive from my previous ventures.

00:02:51: So the views went to almost zero, maybe 11 views or so.

00:02:56: So you get like the stats and the notifications when there's activity on your Google profile

00:03:03: or business profile.

00:03:05: And I just had a message popping up that said 236 views on your business profile.

00:03:16: So there's something happening here without actively promoting this podcast.

00:03:27: Interesting isn't it?

00:03:29: That's what I mean with lighthouse marketing.

00:03:31: Now it's still, we do not have a funnel.

00:03:36: We build a field here.

00:03:40: We build a field and that is why it is important to detach ourselves from time, to detach ourselves

00:03:51: from results.

00:03:54: I want to explore with you what it means to lean into the opportunities that are given

00:04:02: to us, that what wants to flow through us, that what we have discussed extensively, especially

00:04:10: in the first iterations of this podcast and the previous ones.

00:04:15: So we're getting more and more into getting concrete, into getting from the abstract into

00:04:23: the concrete because there is no point in experiencing truth, awakening, God, paradise

00:04:35: when we do not bring it into this world.

00:04:37: So it's a distillation process.

00:04:41: That's something I realized too.

00:04:44: And we're getting closer and you're here live with me when you listen to this episode,

00:04:51: especially close to its date of publication, what I publish is.

00:05:02: That's something I want to share with you.

00:05:05: This is a field I offer, not by applying force, but by just removing the friction as much

00:05:20: as I can.

00:05:23: When we remove the friction as much as we can, we will not be able to foresee what's

00:05:29: going to happen.

00:05:32: But wonder awaits, I believe.

00:05:38: It's episode iteration number 15.

00:05:42: This too alone is something to celebrate.

00:05:45: And now here's my invitation to you, celebrate those small steps and that is why it helps

00:05:51: to have a very loose framework.

00:05:54: For this one, it's just counting.

00:05:56: It's just counting.

00:05:57: And then you can look back and say, "Wow, look how far we've come already."

00:06:05: And that is why I have not determined, predetermined a certain number of episodes I wanted to reach

00:06:13: with this podcast because I really focus on that easing myself into that energy that wants

00:06:23: to flow through me, into removing the friction, into removing the doubt.

00:06:30: Well, we cannot remove the doubt.

00:06:34: Wherever you are, you will face challenges, you will face doubts, you will face fears,

00:06:40: anxiety.

00:06:41: Something that is human and we can welcome it, first of all, now there's a thing.

00:06:49: Who steers this boat?

00:06:57: So we learn, we learn how we can sit with our fears, how we can sit what comes up without

00:07:07: falling into pushing it away with some techniques, obsessing over techniques and tools, making

00:07:15: it go away and all the other side would be like attacking and just going head on like,

00:07:24: "Okay, let's do something about it."

00:07:27: Or just hide it away and just cave in.

00:07:30: No, we are here practicing.

00:07:34: being as human as we can be with our own emotions.

00:07:41: And that also means that we are creative.

00:07:45: Creativity is grounded.

00:07:47: It is an expression of humanity too.

00:07:55: You create all the time, even if you do not realize it, even if you do not see yourself

00:08:02: as creative.

00:08:06: It's the relationships you create.

00:08:08: It's the projects you create.

00:08:10: It's anything that comes into materialization when you give up the friction and just tend

00:08:19: to the ideas that are given to you.

00:08:22: It's not even your ideas that you have.

00:08:27: It's through your being that they come and you tend them and you help them to materialize.

00:08:35: Well it's not that you do it all, but you also contribute to it.

00:08:43: I like to compare it with pregnancy.

00:08:49: It's not you as a woman who builds the baby, yet the resources come through you too.

00:09:03: The baby grows even if you do not actively think about it.

00:09:09: But still the resources, like very, very tangible.

00:09:14: The cells, the bones, everything is built through you.

00:09:23: And that's what I want to infuse this with.

00:09:26: So that's where we are right now on this episode on number 50.

00:09:34: We will get more and more concrete.

00:09:37: Right now it's still widespread.

00:09:40: And this is too to encourage and to not to encourage.

00:09:45: Look, profoundly encouragement you can only provide for yourself.

00:09:52: Maybe this serves for inspiration.

00:09:55: Maybe this serves for modeling that we do not have to figure it all out before we shine

00:10:03: our light, before we step out into the world.

00:10:07: It's never going to be like you will have something ready and then you present it.

00:10:13: It's actually the way round.

00:10:16: And then you will get surprised what actually then in the end will emerge from that because

00:10:22: this is not foreseen.

00:10:27: Ultimately creation is nothing that you do it on your own.

00:10:36: It's you just providing the vessel, providing the channel.

00:10:48: And we will be surprised by the one that just as we are to come back to that metaphofe

00:10:53: pregnancy and baby as we are with a baby, what kind of personality, what kind of traits,

00:11:05: what kind of like we do have to determine a direction that we want to go to.

00:11:14: Of course.

00:11:16: And that's the process that is actually happening right now with this podcast.

00:11:22: It's refining, but it's happening over time.

00:11:25: Refinement cannot take place in theory alone.

00:11:30: It has to take place in practice.

00:11:33: That's where you are able to iterate.

00:11:38: A thought that is repeated only as a thought in theory without letting it be interrupted,

00:11:53: influenced, destabilized.

00:11:59: Very likely ends into a loop, a loop that will go on and on and on.

00:12:05: This is no iteration as we live it here at Love Louder.

00:12:14: I want to invite you today to have a little review for yourself.

00:12:22: Just really practice acknowledging where you have evolved, where you have progressed and

00:12:37: took it for granted.

00:12:43: Is it how you handle challenges?

00:12:48: Is it how you handle tense moments in your relationship?

00:12:54: Is it how you are as a being in your business?

00:13:06: Or is it really like a tangible process?

00:13:10: Is it how you provide yourself with what you need with pause, with reflection, maybe through

00:13:21: this podcast too, with moments to re-calibrate yourself, to step out of that thought loops

00:13:36: and step into the field of potential, the lighthouse that you are?

00:13:44: These are just examples, really, feel into it.

00:13:48: There will be something popping up for you.

00:13:52: Just look at your life because this is where the everything that matters, where truth matters.

00:14:02: Truth is here to serve our life, to serve the daily life.

00:14:06: We have to become human for that.

00:14:11: We have to get our hands dirty in humanity, in everything that is connected to being human.

00:14:23: This is why it's called iterations on becoming human.

00:14:28: It's not escaping.

00:14:31: It's the exact opposite.

00:14:33: It's landing here on earth, feeling at home, in your body, in that as a basis and from

00:14:44: that letting it infuse what you do.

00:14:49: Love a little louder.

00:14:51: That is what it means to love like a leader.

00:14:58: I am looking to hearing from you and being with you in the next episode.

00:15:06: Love louder.

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